understand each other so well.

When I tell something in a jovial manner, you consider it serious or sarcastic.
When you tell something in a jovial manner, I consider it serious or sarcastic.
Where exactly is the so called “very good understanding” between us.

love/hate

That which one loves and cherishes from the depth of one's heart

is exactly what another might abhor from the depth of their heart.

Love

Love - a beautiful feeling experienced from deep within our hearts. Yet we look up the dictionary for the correct meaning. And try to assess its value.

It is from our dearest that we receive and to the dearest that we show the meanest side of our character to the extent of being hurt/hurting them deeply.
So do we be happy that we are considered the dearest or feel sad because of the deep pain inflicted?

rivalry or unbreakable bond

A few months and a few families was all that was needed for a conflict and misunderstanding - Oh god...why so I mused.

I realized for rivalry to begin it is not few months or few families that are needed...all it needs is a few seconds and two people.

All depends on how we channelize our mind.

If positively taken then it would take just few seconds and two people to create an unbreakable bond too. Are we willing to take that?

just a thought

When in Rome do as the Romans do (St.Ambrose)

so goes the saying....

well....we also seem to be following this -

When Romans are here do as they do.

I always thought and felt my hurt is the most painful and sometimes just unbearable. But when my friends and others living around come to me pouring out their sorrow and hurt, I realized mine is just nothing. I can go past the hurt I am undergoing. God has been very gentle to me.